The reading of the will makes a great scene in movies and television shows, with the family gathered around a desk in a lawyer’s office hoping that their long-lost uncle remembered them and bequeathed them money or diamonds. But as of 2024, fewer than one third of adults say that they have a will prepared, which actually represents a decline in preparedness since 2023.
If you pass away without a will, your estate will end up in court, and a probate judge will decide who gets what and – if you have any children under the age of 18 – who will become their guardian. Without guidance, the court does not know your wishes, and while a probate judge will make the most informed decision they can, there is no guarantee that they will make the same decisions that you would have.
Making sure that you have an up-to-date will prepared is crucial to ensuring your wishes are carried out upon your passing. Keep in mind that estate law is governed by the state in which you are a resident. But before consulting an attorney or contacting the on-base legal assistance office for help writing your will, it’s important to understand the anatomy of a Last Will and Testament.
The Document
A will is a legally binding document that details your wishes for how your estate should be handled after your passing. Within it, you can designate an executor, beneficiaries, and a guardian for your children. You also can write instructions for how you would like your assets to be distributed.
If you are active duty or retired military – or a family member – you have access to legal personnel on base, and they are able to help you create your will at no cost. The American Bar Association also maintains a directory of legal programs that are available to military families in each state. If you are unable to access military-specific legal aid, you can write your will by enlisting the help of an estate lawyer – whom you could find on your state’s bar website – or using a reputable software program.
Note: Navy Mutual partners with Trust & Will to offer estate planning services to our Members. We are able to offer a 20% discount on estate planning services provided by Trust & Will.
Executors
An executor is a person who is tasked with making sure that the terms of your will are carried out as written. They are responsible for filing the appropriate paperwork with probate court, making notifications of your death, ensuring that outstanding payments are made after your passing (e.g., credit card payments, taxes, and other liabilities), and distributing your remaining assets to your beneficiaries. Your executor could be a family member or friend, or it could be an attorney or other professional. Choose someone trustworthy and organized.
Upon your passing, your executor must file paperwork with the local probate court. Together with the court, your executor will prove the validity of your will, present a list of the debts that remain outstanding after your death, and determine who stands to inherit what (as written in your will). After this process is complete, both creditors and beneficiaries are notified, and assets can be distributed appropriately. This process is called probate, and it typically takes a few months to a year to complete. Executors are responsible for maintaining property within the estate until it can be distributed to beneficiaries, sold, or otherwise disposed of, if unclaimed or unwanted.
Beneficiaries
Choosing beneficiaries is the part that everyone thinks of when they imagine writing a will. Your beneficiaries are the individuals whom you designate to inherit your money, house, car, valuables, and any other assets that you want to pass along after your passing. You could also make a charitable organization a beneficiary of your estate.
Assets
Do an inventory of what you will be leaving behind – including any debt. Write out a list of everything that you own: bank accounts, investments, property, collectable items, vehicles, heirlooms, and anything else that might be of value to your family or friends. Then, write out a list of debts. Do you owe money on credit cards, vehicles, student loans, or mortgages? Depending on the type of liability, these debts will need to be paid off or transferred to someone after your death, so you need to plan to do so.
Note: A will cannot overrule the passage of any property that is titled under more than one name (e.g., if you and your spouse are both listed on the deed to your house or a joint bank account), or any beneficiaries listed under life insurance policies and retirement accounts. A will can only distribute assets that are not otherwise allocated through a valid beneficiary designation.
Earmark bank accounts for any debt that you may have – and state this in your will. If you have property with outstanding loan balances that are too large for your family to handle, you can state that you would like the property sold or designate other assets to pay off the remaining debt. It’s important to make a plan for your debt so that your executor isn’t scrambling to find the money for payments after you pass. If you don’t plan for debt, those payments can eat into funds that you would prefer to pass to your beneficiaries.
Once you have a plan for paying off any debt, you can get to the “fun part” of deciding who gets what of whatever is left. Some things might be obvious to you – maybe you want to leave everything to a surviving spouse, or maybe you only have one child. But for items or assets that you’re uncertain about, it’s perfectly okay to get the input of your beneficiaries before making final decisions.
While initially an uncomfortable conversation, it is one that you and your loved ones will be glad you had when the time comes. If everything is written down, no one will have to rely on the court to make arbitrary decisions that may not have been consistent with your preferred choices. So, ask your children and other beneficiaries if there’s anything specific they want from your estate. Give them some input into the process. It will be empowering – and easier – for all of you.
Guardians
If you have children who are under age 18 or who are physically or mentally unable to care for themselves in perpetuity, they will need someone to take your place after your passing. It’s wise to choose alternate guardians as well. You never know whether you will outlive your first choice, or if circumstances will occur that would make them unable to fulfill your wishes. Before naming someone a guardian, make sure you have a conversation with them and that they are both willing and able to care for your child(ren) if worse comes to worst.
You will also need to figure out what to do with any pets that you may have at the time of your death. Guardians for your animals can also be listed in your will. Again, you’ll want to make sure that the person(s) you designate are aware that you expect them to care for your animals (and it may be considerate to include some funds for their care as well).
Witnesses
Most states require your will to be signed by two disinterested witnesses whose job it is to watch you sign your will. This means that they cannot stand to inherit anything and cannot be listed as beneficiaries. Witnesses must also be at least 18 years old and U.S. citizens or Green Card holders. Your witnesses should be people you know and trust – they could be called to court to confirm they saw you sign the will.
Some states also require wills to be notarized. Look up the rules in your state or consult a legal expert before signing any paperwork. You could also consider having your will notarized even if not required by your state – this can speed up the probate process because it eliminates the need for the court to prove that your signature is valid.
Maintenance
Once your will is finalized, keep it in a safe location and make sure that your executor knows where to find it after you pass. It may be wise to store multiple copies of your will with other important documents just in case something happens to the original. Navy Mutual Members can store important documents of a non-monetary nature in our vault as a benefit of Membership.
Second, review your will each time you undergo a major life event – having a child, getting married or divorced, buying or selling property, experiencing the death of a beneficiary, or undergoing significant financial changes. Anything that may change the distribution of your assets is a reason to revisit your will and make any corresponding changes. Keeping it up to date will ensure that things go as smoothly as possible for your executor and beneficiaries after your passing. If you do make updates to your will, be sure that the most up-to-date version explicitly states that it supersedes all prior wills, get it signed and notarized, and destroy or mark as invalid all earlier wills to prevent confusion in the future.
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The Navy Mutual blog is meant to provide basic information that generally applies to most situations and should not be construed as legal or tax advice. It is not meant to replace the services of a financial planner, insurance counselor, attorney, or tax adviser. Information contained in this blog post may change on occasion.